When you’ve been with your girlfriend for a long time, you will usually want to make an “honest woman” out of her by marrying her! Weddings are such happy and joyful celebrations of two people’s commitment to one another.
You expect to spend the rest of your life with the woman you marry. But what you don’t expect is for her to stray into the arms of another person! A large proportion of divorces cite infidelity as the cause of a marriage breakdown.
By now, you are probably reading this and hoping that you won’t be such a statistic. The truth is, you are doubtless looking at this article because you suspect that your wife is cheating on you. But, is she really being unfaithful? If your gut feeling says yes, you’ll need some hard evidence to confront her with your suspicions.
Here are a few ways that you can get the unhappy proof that you need:
She stops confiding in you
It’s no surprise that, as a married couple, you’ll divulge life’s concerns and secrets with one another. Arguably one of the classic signs that your wife is playing away from home is that she stops confiding in you.
OK, so you can’t exactly use that as the basis to accuse her of cheating on you. But it can help to point you in the right direction if she is unfaithful.
She keeps coming up with fantastically unbelievable excuses
You might not realize it, but many cheaters are bad liars. That’s because they are finding it hard to keep their secret affair from you. For that reason, they’ll invent all kinds of weird and wonderful excuses to disguise the truth.
For example, let’s say that she got a parking ticket in one part of town, and yet claimed that she was somewhere else at the time. If she was on a date with her lover, she might have said that her “friend from work” borrowed her car that evening when she was “working late”!
She “forgets” her wedding band when she “travels away for work”
A person’s wedding ring is a reminder of the oath they swore to you on the big day. Many cheating wives will leave their wedding bands at home out of guilt. The more shameless women out there might do so to disguise from their lover the fact that they are married in the first place!
Let’s face it; some people will genuinely forget to wear their wedding rings sometimes. But, if your wife’s wedding band spends more time off than on her finger, you’ll know something’s amiss.
She texts and makes calls to someone when she thinks you’re asleep
One of the ways of tracking a cheating spouse is through technology. I remember a story a friend of mine once told me about his now ex-wife. A few years ago, she would go to the bathroom with her cell phone and call someone when she thought my buddy was asleep.
After one such occasion, she forgot her cell phone in the bathroom and went downstairs to the kitchen for a snack. What she didn’t realize was that her phone was on “loud” at the time, and the text message chime went off while she was preparing her snack.
My buddy went to investigate and saw a rather incriminating text message on her phone from her lover.